La Jolla Cove Hotel - Rooftop

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

Ceremony

Summer

Our Wedding

Our Story

Brett and Haley met at a lively college bar in the heart of downtown Santa Barbara. It was love at first sight! Haley introduced herself, and Brett’s buddy (now a groomsman) happily gave up his seat for her. After a bit of banter, Brett asked Haley on a proper first date. The rest, as they say, is history. Brett pulled out all the stops to woo Haley on their first date, even borrowing his dad’s BMW to pick her up. They quickly felt the ease and comfort of talking to a best friend and introduced each other to their families, who welcomed them with open arms. Haley cherishes her first Christmas at the Patton house, while Brett treasures their first trip to Montana together. Whitefish, MT became their special place, where Brett later proposed overlooking Big Mountain. Their relationship grew stronger during the pandemic. They passed the time by taking scenic drives to watch rocket launches and playing endless board games. Their competitive spirit lived on as they later joined co-ed kickball and beach volleyball leagues. Haley and Brett have supported one another through career changes, traveled abroad together, and earned a reputation as the best-dressed couple at many themed gatherings. It’s only fitting that these two UC Santa Barbara Gauchos will be married overlooking the Pacific. After seven years of adventures, Brett and Haley look forward to their next chapter, where they hope to grow their family and grow old together. They are deeply grateful for their family and friends and can't wait to celebrate with you by their side. Cheers to living happily ever after!

Glimpses of Us

Blair was one of the first friends Haley made after her cross-country move to California. They became inseparable freshman year at Chaminade College Prep.  Blair is like a sister to Haley.

Blair

Nick and Brett became a dynamic duo at UCSB where they met playing Division I golf. They've since gone on to dominate the Grass League. The boys bring out the best in one another. 

Nick

April and Haley met through Alpha Chi Omega. Brett and Haley were inspired to adopt their cat, Auggie, following April's CATchelorette Party. 

April

Lane and Brett were also teammates in college and continue competing together. Brett and Haley love spending time Lane and Kayleigh.

Lane

Megan and Haley met in college and grew close while living in Santa Barbara after graduation. They share a love of travel and are always up for a side quest to find the best coffee in town!

Megan

Grant and Brett met at Dos Pueblos High School and the Amersons have become like a second family to Brett over the years. There is a tie for who Brett texts more - Grant or Haley!

Grant

Natasha and Haley were college roommates and were in AXO together. They look forward to annual ski trips and are always up for a game night with Ghirardelli brownies!

Natasha

Bobby is Haley’s older brother and role model. Haley is the godmother of Bobby’s eldest, Charlotte, who will also be their flower girl. Brett is excited to officially become an uncle!

Bobby

Haley and Brett walked down the aisle together at Cara and Jason's wedding and are excited for this full circle moment! Cara and Haley serve on the boards for the Association of Environmental Professionals and Junior League together. 

Cara

Jason and Brett became close friends after many double-dates. The girls appreciate a cozy date-night in while the boys do the grilling! Jason and Brett are known for their creative costumes at the Monster Golf Tournament each October. 

Jason

Jackie and Haley became fast friends through the Junior League. They share an appreciation for live music, Taylor Swift, and enjoy line dancing together. 

Jackie

These brothers enjoy working on cars and even wrapped Brett's E36! When they're not in the garage, you can find Tyler and Brett e-biking through the Funk Zone.

Tyler

Taylor was also a member of the golf team and is a frequent houseguest whenever he visits Santa Barbara. Taylor always kicks-off dinner by asking everyone to share the “best part of their day,” a tradition that Haley and Brett have adopted.  They also enjoy visiting Anna and Taylor at their ranch, where they spend time skeet shooting and enjoying farm-to-table meals together.

Taylor

Wedding Party

Our wedding venue also doubles as an oceanside hotel! Our room block includes your choice of the Pines Signature King Room at $409/night or the Pines Oceanfront 2 Queen room at $539/night (pictured). The hotel features two buildings: our room block is located on the fourth floor of the fully renovated West Building, and our venue is on the rooftop of the main East Building. Use the link below to reserve your room. Enter the Group Code BRETTANDHALEY to receive our discounted block rate. Secure by Tuesday, July 21st.

La Jolla Cove Hotel

The Empress Hotel is located in the heart of La Jolla and is a short 10 minute walk from our venue. The room block includes your choice of either a Superior King room (pictured) or a Superior Two Queens room at $269/night. Use the link below to automatically receive our discounted block rate, OR manually enter&nbsp;BRETTANDHALEY&nbsp;as the Group Code. Secure by Wednesday, July 29th.

Empress Hotel La Jolla

Accommodations 

San Diego Zoo

Balboa Park

Point La Jolla Sea Lion Rookery

La Plaza La Jolla

La Jolla Open Aire Farmers Market

Birch Aquarium

Torrey Pines Golf Course

Things to Do

Registry

For those traveling by plane, our venue is conveniently located 14 miles from San Diego International Airport (SAN). Both our wedding ceremony and reception will take place at 1155 Coast Blvd, La Jolla. Stay at one of our hotel blocks (see the Accommodations tab) and walk or use rideshare, as public parking is limited.

Our special day is a Black-Tie affair, so dress to impress! We kindly ask that gentlemen wear a tuxedo or a dark colored suit and tie. Ladies should wear a floor-length dress - cheerful summer colors and florals are encouraged. Our venue is heel-friendly.

Expect daytime temperatures in the high 70s with a light ocean breeze. Our predominantly outdoor venue features a shaded ceremony seating area and an air-conditioned bar to keep you cool and comfortable. After sunset, cozy up to one of the fire pits overlooking the Pacific.

We’re excited to celebrate our special day with our closest family and friends. While we adore your little ones, we’ve chosen to make this an adults-only celebration with the exception of our immediate family. We kindly ask that you refrain from requesting guest list modifications.

Brett & Haley

Brett & Haley

B&H

Wedding Ceremony & Reception